Sebičnost / Selfishness

Znaš, ponekad razmišljam kako je doista definirati... Neki dan sam se sjetila nekih druženja i pomislila zašto, zapravo, nisu uspjela... I pomislih da je zbog sebičnosti, kao rezultat granica, neujednačenih. Znaš, već, svatko od nas ima svoje granice... trebamo naučiti poštovati – sebe i svoje granice, ali i druge i njihove granice. Onog trena kad mislimo samo o svojim granicama i zanemarujemo tuđe, javlja se sebičnost. Onog trena kad svojevoljno prelazimo svoje granice, poštujući tuđe, rađa se Ljubav... Čije granice želiš ti prelaziti?

You know, sometimes, I think about how to really define it… One day I remembered some of my relationships and thought about why they did not work… And, I thought it was because of selfishness, as result of boundaries, unevenness. As You know everyone has its own boundaries… we have to learn to respect them – ourselves and our boundaries, but also others and their boundaries. That moment when we think just of our own boundaries and neglect other people’s boundaries, selfishness apears. The moment we cross, by our own choice, our boundaries, but with respect towards the boundaries of others, Love is growing… Whose boundaries would you like to cross?