Društveni eksperiment / Social experiment

U poplavi društvenih eksperimenata kroz skrivene kamere... ispostavilo se da se nađoh u jednom, iako bez skrivene kamere (hmmm, a Veliki Brat?) No, u svemu što dotakneš, možeš pronaći način, kažu... Dakle, eksperiment, koji bismo mogli nazvati „koliko smo spremni na prilagođavanje“ ili „kako smo/jesmo li odgojeni za pristojnu komunikaciju s ljudima“, se sastojao od prijedloga za 1-3 druženja tijekom 2 dana, po izboru (ništa, nešto, sve). I pozvano je 10 osoba. Evo rezultata: ·    4 osobe nisu uopće odgovorile ·    2 su (barem) odgovorile da imaju druge planove ·    2 su osobe odgovorile da mogu, ali AKO se može povesti još nekoga i ako se prilagodi mjesto njihovim potrebama i željama (a svaki je imao drugačije potrebe i želje) ·    1 je osoba samoinicijativno pozvala još 5 ljudi i pokušala izmijeniti ili otkazati druženja koja mu/joj nisu pasala ·    1 osoba je javila na koja bi druženja voljela doći ako stigne Konačno, odustalo se od dogovora, jer nisu se mogli zadovoljiti svi zahtijevani parametri. Pitala sam se kad je sve to nestalo – potreba za druženjem, prilagodljivost, pristojnost (odgovaranje na poziv)? Ili sam ja nestala? No, zabavih se sama... s guštom...

Flodded with social experiments through funny pranks… it seems I have been caught in one, although there was no camera (or was that Big Brother?) Well, it is said that in everything you touch, you can find the Way… So, the experiment, lets call it “how much we are ready to adapt” or “how we are / are we raised for the proper communication with people”, consisted from a proposal for gatherings 1-3 times, during two days, by choice (nothing, something, all). Ten people were invited. Here are the results: ·      4 persons did not answer at all! ·      2 persons replaid that they have other plans ·      2 persons replied that they could come, BUT IF they can invite someone else, and IF the place can be changed due to their needs and wishes (and each one of them had differenet ones) ·      1 person, on his/her own initiative, invited 5 more people and tried to change or cancel meettings which did not like ·      1 person replied that s/he would definitely like to come if s/he manages Finally, all was cancelled due to impossibility of fullfiling required parameters. When all was finished, I asked myself where this all: need for gathering, adaptability, decency (like to answer on the invitation) disappeared? Or have I disappeared? But, I had my own fun… with pleasure…