Tuga / Sorrow

Nema prave tuge… nema takve osjetljivosti, negativne… kad ti je srce otvoreno, doista, onda si sretan kad nekog vidiš, lijepo vam je i kad taj netko odlazi, ti prihvaćaš to isto tako, s ljubavlju. Nema razočarenja.   Jesi sigurna u to? Jesam. Dokle god postoji neka negativna emocija, koja te tjera na zatvaranje, to je projekcija. To nije istinska emocija srca. Ti možeš na trenutak osjetiti tugu zato što je netko otišao, ali čim ulaziš u tu tugu, to je vezanje i to je, najvjerojatnije, povezano s nekom projekcijom, s nečim što si prije doživio, što te natjeralo da tako reagiraš. Zato ti je problem prihvatiti što je odlazak nekoga koga si volio, u stvari, slavlje.   Daj, kak može bit slavlje? Mislim… halo? Evo, sad ću ti objasnit. Znači, ne možeš prihvatiti da je netko otišao, jer tebi je bilo super s njim. Ti si ga zavolio, bio ti je super i sad, odjednom, ti moraš slavit zato kaj je on otišao. Da, pa nema logike. Zato… ima logike. Nema logike zato što gledaš iz sebičnih razloga – ti ne možeš više s njim biti fizički… Ali, ako prestaneš gledati sebično, ako gledaš iz srca koje je istinsko, onog pravog srca, onda si sretan zato što je on otišao negdje gdje mu je bolje. Pa kako ja mogu znat da je on otišao negdje gdje mu je bolje? A onda ne vjeruješ u to! Pa, naravno da ne vjerujem! Pa onda nije ni čudo kaj ne možeš slaviti, kad ne vjeruješ. Ti si vezan za fizički razvoj događaja… Primijetila si, ha? Da. Pa neće te boljet kad ti se srce otvori… Eh, uglavnom, dok god si vezan za to fizičko, tebe će boljeti otvaranje srca, zato što te otvaranje srca tjera na neki drugi način poimanja stvari. A tebi se baš hoće bit vezan! Malo pojasni to… Pa, to ti znači 'ne da mi se mijenjat. Lijen sam.' …

There is no real sorrow… there is no such sensitiveness, negative… when your heart is really open, than you are happy whenever you see somebody; it is nice when you are together, and, when that person is leaving, you are accepting this with love. There is no disappointment. Are you sure? Yes. If there is some negative emotion, which is pushing you to close yourself, this is a projection. This is not the real emotion of the heart. You can feel in one moment the sorrow because somebody has gone, but if you are going into that sorrow, that is an attachment. And this is, probably, connected with some projection, with something what you experienced before, which pushed you to react like that. That is why you have problem accepting that when somebody whom you love is going, while you should actually be celebrating. Come on! How can this be a celebration? I mean… hello? Here, let me explain it. You can not accept that somebody is gone, because you had very good time together. You loved him, he was great and now, suddenly, you have to celebrate that he has gone. Yes, there is no logic. That is because… there is logic. There is no logic if you are thinking about selfish reasons – you can not be with him physically… But, if you stop with selfishness, if you are looking at that from the point of your heart, true heart, than you are happy because he has gone where is better for him. How can I know that he has gone where is better? Well, than you don’t believe in this! Of course, I don’t! Than there is no wonder that you can not celebrate, if you don’t believe. You are attached for physically actions… You’ve noticed, ha? Yes. Well, it will not hurt, when your heart opens… Eh, well, until you are attached with this physical existence, opening of your heart will hurt, because the opening of the heart is pushing you into some other way of looking on the things. And you just want to be attached! Explain me that… Well, it means ‘I don’t want to change myself. I am lazy.’ …