Kako se riješiti napasnika? / How to manage with obsessed person?

Što učiniti s nekim tko je napastan, bez obzira na sve tvoje pokušaje, na finjaka i na grubljaka??? Evo par savjeta... Problemi: 1.  Napasnik/ca ignorira sve što pišeš/pričaš i nastavlja po svom. 2.  Ti šumom, napasnik/ca drumom. Ne može te razumijeti. Moguća rješenja: 1.  Pozovi napasnika/cu na šetnju na skrovito mjesto, ubij ga/ju i zakopaj tamo (šala!!!) 2.  Isto kao pod 1, ali ga/je moraš prije toga mučiti (šala2!!!!) 3.  Nemoj ništa objašnjavati, samo pusti... 4.  Objašnjavaj, ali nemoj ulaziti u emocije. 5.  Napiši nešto, kratko na način na koji bi to napasnik/ca rekao/rekla... U svakom slučaju pusti raspravljanje. Napasnik/ca te ne može i ne želi shvatiti. Dobro mu/joj je s tobom i želi se družiti, te ne može/ne želi prihvatiti da ti to ne želiš. Drži ga/je na pristojnoj udaljenosti i budi oprezan/oprezna. I ovo funkcionira! Osobito ovo s ignoriranjem. Provjereno... To su izmislile državne službe...

What to do with someone who is obsessed by you, no matter what you try, polite or not??? Here are some hints… Problems: 1.  The obsessed one ignores everything you write/say and do what he/she wants. 2.  You are talking about one thing, he/she of other. He/she cannot understand you. Possible solutions: 1.  Ask obsessed one for the walk, kill him/her and burry the body with earth (joking!!!) 2.  The same like 1st, but you have to torturing him/her before killing (joke2!!!!) 3.  Do not explain anything; just let it go… 4.  Explain, but without emotions. 5.  Write down something, short, in the way of the obsessed one…. Anyway, do not debate. The obsessed one cannot and do not want to understand you. He/she likes to be with you and wants to hang with you. He/she cannot and do not want to accept that you do not want the same. Keep him/her on the distance and be carefull. And that is functioning! Especially that one with ignoring. Tested… Civile Services invented it!